I've had several different guys tell me that they think about sex pretty much 24/7. I've had a few tell me that they are constantly thinking, “I'd like to have sex with her.” or not, whenever they see a woman in public. I've had one guy tell me, no, he doesn't think about sex all the time. But most who I've asked said they did.
I want to know if there are women (out of the teens) out there, any or a lot or all, who see a guy and just think, “Ooh, I'd love to kiss him.” (Or whatever.) And I'm not talking about someone you know, someone you have a relationship with, some friend. I'm talking random guy walking by in a restaurant.
I love sex. But I don't look at a guy and think, “What kind of package has he got?” or anything like that.
I wonder if that is my generation, my upbringing, just me, or is it common?
Recently I've read a couple of books where the women are thinking like that. And I'm wondering if a guy wrote the books.
I don't know of anyone who thinks that way, but most of my girlfriends have had past traumas (abuse or assault) and don't like sex at all. So I don't really have a large group I could ask.